Honor your father and your mother...
This is not a command that becomes invalid once we move out of the house. Our parents will always be our parents, and as adults we are to show them honor. Once we are married this includes in-laws as well.
This can take many shapes and forms, but what it comes down to is respecting them, recognizing their roles, valuing their wisdom, and showing them love. In some families this may not be easy. Some parents do little to earn that respect. But we are to still honor their position as our parents. Choose your words carefully when talking with them, or when talking to others about them. Perhaps the parents have reached the stage when much is demanded of you by way of taking care of them. This can be exhausting. But remember that one day you and your husband could be in that position. When you lovingly care for a parent or in-law who can no longer take care of themselves, you are living God's love. Showing honor to a parent, especially when it is difficult, is a beautiful testimony to others.
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